Maybe you ask yourself why I have started an energy exchange with myself and Tara (Essence name Niella) and what is my connection with her.
We are friends over many lifetimes (from your perception past as well as future) over many continents in your world. My friend Tara has the ability to do a direct energy exchange now after many years of practice. It is engaged with enthusiasm and respected, to commit to do no harm by myself. She is Tumold aligned and of the Sumari family (this is an essence family)* so her focus for the majority of her life has been creative healing arts and compassion in one capacity or another. She agreed to this long ago, and is free to change at any time. She is a clear medium; she receives the information with ease and can remove her attention so a private conversation in the form of an energy exchange can occur between myself and another. I could not ask for better and we enjoy it. There is a vastness to an exchange that most do not understand.
As an example, some questions her friend Paula raised for Tara to Tompkin during an energy exchange (consultation). This gives also a bit of insight in how such consultation works.
Paula: "How is Tara assisting people during a session other than being a transmitter, so to speak?" "How does her energy help the people?"
Tompkin: Her energy is Tumold at the moment. She is of Tumold alignment but she is very, very immersed in that Tumold to the point where her energy can travel any distance to surround that being who is having the strife and actually help them - assist them to find the grace that they are looking for in the moment of their ill health. So, when she is offering assistance, she is offering it energetically. But she is also knowledgeable in many, many areas of healing because this has been her focus for so many years; almost her entire lifetime.
So, accessing knowledge from her when I am not present will also be of benefit to people if they want to be - say... what we call it... "double session". They can talk to her and find many answers that can be helpful. And they will also feel her energy healing them while they are talking to her and when they speak to me, I can then tell them the different subtleties that she would not have picked up - would not be possible to pick up for her in the physical, the solid dimension that she is dwelling. Where [as] I could feel the subtleties and then help add on to the information she is providing to help the person ultimately feel better. It would be quite a healing experience to access both energies.
Paula: "How many lives did Tara have with you?"
Tompkin: (Laughing) Too many to count, almost all! - including this one! We like each other!
Paula: Now Tara said the ones that she can remember are: "The aboriginal life where he was my grandfather and the one where he was the Maharaja where he rode an elephant and she called you Moe."
Tompkin: Ah, yes. I am very fond of that life. I lived in the lap of luxury. It was good. (Laughing)
Paula: (Laughing) Oh, and can you... were you her grandfather in an aboriginal life?
Tompkin: Yes, several times, but the one that she accesses, she was remembering an age of about 12 and she didn't have parents so I was not only her grandfather, I was like a parent.
Paula: Oh, alright, and also, she remembers a North American focus as an Indian Shaman and you were in that focus. Is that correct?
Tompkin: We were not as close in the focus. I was more of a village Shaman so... the village Shamans were put in a different position within the tribe and were less approachable so we did not live "close to the heart" in that life, but she sees my face in memory.
Paula: "Did Tara have a focus as Princess Louise?" She felt a huge surge of energy when she got near her personal display at Stirling Castle. She said it sent a ripple through her body. She said Princess Louise was an artist and she also is. So, she is wondering if that is true that she had a focus as Princess Louise?
Tompkin: Yes, very good. She did and she [Princess Louise] was very close in personality to her current personality and this surge of energy she was feeling was just that familiarity of that closeness - of being very much the same.
Paula: Oh, okay. Now, Princess Louise in that focus - she had a horse-carriage accident. Now, Tara wants to know; did that leave an impact that followed through to this life and is that why she does not like to ride in carriages?
Tompkin: No, not the carriages so much. The carriages do not represent the issue. The issue with the horses is: Princess Louise loved her horses. She loved being around them. She loved interacting with the energy. She liked riding them. Princess Louise did not have that fear. She had a fear of the motion - the rocking, the jolting, the speed at which the carriages could travel. This is what has carried over with Tara's current life. She does not like speed. She does not like speed of any form; in any moving carriage, even the motorized carriages. She doesn't like it. It brings back flashes of that focus.
The fear with the horses is more a fear of being trampled - the thundering of the hooves when horses are moving quickly whether she is on them, or beside them, or around them. The thundering triggers a memory of a past focus of where she was working with the rodeo. She was a Bull Rider and she was trampled to death.
This energy has carried over into this life. AND there is a way for her to 'pass' this energy, forget this energy, shall we say; move on from it. It is an energetic imprint which has become memory but it is falsely her memory. It is not her memory in this life but her brain has the same reaction to it, the same trigger. So, when she is around this noise, she actually needs to do some self-talk, some inward focus, some relaxation of all her muscles, to stop the firing within her own brain which is not related to the current situation.
Snorting is the other trigger.
Paula: Okay, thank you. And then... a few more personal questions from Tara. Now about her back: She would like to know: "Would surgery significantly help my back and would it hinder the energy exchange at all?"
Tompkin: No and no.
The energy exchange shall continue. She has agreed to this and is very happy to do so. It gives her pleasure AND there is a small reward that she does not have back pain while it is happening or for many hours afterwards. So, this is beneficial; however, the energy exchange is quite disruptive to her own energy. She does need time away from it and time to rest. And she has learned pacing and pacing has helped her find that time frame where she can laugh and be fully present with her friends and she can seek out joy in her own life where she is not having to interact with me. Although she enjoys interacting with me a little too much! (Laughing) And then this becomes playful for her and disrupts her energy. So, by learning to set aside time-frames where she is not interacting with me, we have worked out a pattern that is beneficial for her.
(Speaking very, very quickly) Her spine is labile. It is hyper-mobile. It is reflecting the movement she is having in her life that is so great. The shift she is undergoing is a reflection of flexibility. She is flexible through her entire body and as she is getting older that flexibility is diminishing. So, her spine is not reflecting that flexibility. She has a personality that is malleable, changeable, flexible, go-with-the-flow and when she is stuck on a particular issue, it has to go somewhere AND it goes into her back AND the pain is a reminder to lighten up and have more fun-and be malleable in every way, as that is her true energy. It shifts. It changes. It moves and when she doesn't allow that, the density then settles in her spine.